<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674</id><updated>2012-02-16T13:41:12.671+05:00</updated><category term='Cell Phones'/><category term='Mind'/><category term='Visit To Zoo'/><category term='Common Character'/><category term='New Generation'/><category term='Free Sms'/><category term='Friendship'/><category term='Heart'/><category term='False Love'/><category term='Local Transport'/><category term='Gift Of God'/><category term='Traveling'/><category term='Words'/><category term='Observers'/><category term='Major Sin'/><category term='Observe'/><category term='Backbiting'/><category term='Fee Minutes'/><category term='Common Sin'/><title type='text'>Words by Heart Arif Iftikhar</title><subtitle type='html'>Here are the words of my heart &amp;amp; mind and also find those words which remain only words of my heart and could not speak them so here I want to share all those unspoken thoughts, ideas and words with your gentle unknown personality. Thank you for reading my blog. Arif Iftikhar</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8629687829449906610</id><published>2009-05-16T10:43:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:45:06.987+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Backbiting'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Major Sin'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Common Sin'/><title type='text'>Backbiting; A major but Common Sin</title><content type='html'>The saying of our Beloved Holy Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (May peace be upon him) is that backbiting is as that one eats the flesh of his/her dead brother. So, it shows that how greater sin is to speak against one’s absence. But unfortunately, it has became our common practice to frequently pass negative comments and remain ignorant that we are committing one of the greatest sins “backbiting”. Just recall our conversation among our social, family or official gatherings. Someone, just put a question to carry on the conversation “how is Mr./Miss XYZ, its long time to see him/her” so, this question is like the short pitched ball and now everyone will try to pull that ball for six. All the members will consider their duty to give some comments about that absent person and unfortunately most of the comments will be against him. The continuity of this practice is injecting the abhorrence against each other and now we need make up of falsehood to conversation, we have to show that we are loyal sincere and loving with the other fellow but on the actual grounds we don’t have positive feelings. The reason is again same “backbiting “, which is responsible of this falsehood and the true feelings, true positive likings have been abolished.If somebody commits crime like robbery or fraud he will get some money or other economic benefits so, his crime has some justifications but the question arises what we gain and what are the benefits to passing such negative comments? Why we enjoy recalling someone’s negative practices? I don’t know the answer. Perhaps, we have devil inside and we do such practices just to feed him but it is the only justification or the only safe side for our evil deeds that it was Satan who tempted us for sin. We put all our misdeeds on Satan’s shoulders and say very innocently that it was he (Satan) who forced us. I want to share a joke with you that once a person committed some wrong and when some asked him why you did it? He replied it was Satan who tempted him to do so, suddenly Satan appears there and explain that the sin was not even in his (Satan) mind and he is just blaming him (Satan). Again come to topic that we should discourage this practice (backbiting) and if we can’t stop him (backbiters), at least we should not encourage them to do it. Shakespeare’s widely quoted quotation (“GIVE EVERY MAN THY EAR BUT FEW THY VOICE”) from his play “Hamlet” also giving indications that we should try our best to avoid making unnecessary comments. Its intellectual practice to listen more and speak less, in this way we continuously remain in learning process. For example, we are conversing with some intellectual, teacher or elder; definitely we will get something from his words. But if we talking with a fool then too we get some lesion from our meeting. It would be habit of foolish person that he will speak absurd, repeat his talks again and again or will speak against somebody. Definitely, we will feel irritation and on the other hand he is giving us lesson to avoid the practice what he is doing i.e. speak absurd, repeat talks again and again or speak against somebody. It means there is lesson for us even we are talking with fool.In the end, we should be more practical and less theoretical. A wise person always weighs his words before utterance, it’s the key of success.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-8629687829449906610?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/8629687829449906610/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/backbiting-major-but-common-sin.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8629687829449906610'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8629687829449906610'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/backbiting-major-but-common-sin.html' title='Backbiting; A major but Common Sin'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8096089636849638106</id><published>2009-05-16T10:42:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:43:53.195+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fee Minutes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Free Sms'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Cell Phones'/><title type='text'>Competition among the Cell Phones and Service Providers</title><content type='html'>Communication was never as easy as it is in present era. It would not be wrong to say that for the last ten years belonged to the promotion of Cell Phones and Cellular Companies. Now, majority of our population is enjoying the services of more than one (Networks) service providers. On the other hand there is a great competition between the Cell Phone manufacturer companies and (Networks) the service provider companies. Each day we see the arrival of new cell phone in the market, some are increasing the camera results, graphics, sound quality and others are working to increase the Battery timings, memory, speakers and microphone. In short, Major companies are working hard to reach and stay at the top in the market. The competition is much tough between the service provider companies. They talk about the coverage and attractive packages of free minutes and free SMS. As the result, users are using more than one network. If one wants to make a long calls he will first change his sim, again when he is willing to send SMS he will rechange his sim. So, this practice is going on. It is being said that whenever there is a competition between the companies user will gets the benefit. But as far as the above mention competitions (between the Cell Phone Manufacturer Companies and Service Providers Networks) is concerned, though, the apparently the customer/user is getting benefits but actually customers/users are in loss. Suppose you purchase a cell phone which has all the updated features. Next day or within few days, new features will be introduced in the market and the resale valve of your Cell Phone will move down up to 40%. Cell Phones are at the top as far as the lowest resale value is concerned. Everybody wishes to purchase the cell phone with the updated available features in the market. So, he has to sale his present cell and replace with the new arrival. This is the loss of money on the customer end but the major loss is due to the competition between service provider companies. They are offering the free minutes and free SMS Packages and our young generation is going mad to achieve these offers. So, if a person gets 500 free SMS just in 3 rupees and the validity of this offer is just one day. Now, he will try hard to consume 500/500 SMS per day. And if he achieved this target, he will consider himself a lucky person but actually he just wasted his time. And furthermore 90% of his SMS will be absurd, may be vulgar jokes or its another form. Another practice is also going on that someone sends the Ahadees Mubarka (Holy Saying of Hazrat Muhammad (May peace be upon him)) and in the end there we find that if you deliver this SMS to 10 or 20 people you will be rewarded and in other case you will find some lose. First of all these type of Ahadees Mubaraks are not authentic and specially the conditions to must forward the SMS is not justified in any case. In short, there will be hardly 2% of SMS is really necessary to send; containing some information.So, if we have a glance in our past, people had much time for their families. They sit together and share their routine matters. And our villages were typically representative of such gatherings. Just imagine that all the mature members of a family are sitting, chatting and discussing their matters, sharing with each others, their children are also playing under their presence and it was the positive consumption of their time. But now the table has been turned due to these latest Free minutes and Free SMS Offers. The senior members of the family sit alone and on the other hand young generation seems busy with their cell phones. Even in meetings, social gatherings, and parties they pay no heed to the conversation of the person physically present there but actually remain busy in chatting on their cell phones. All the time their fingers keep on moving over the cell phone, (for typing text messages) and they just node their heads to show that they are listening other’s conversation. So, the physical presence is not important now but another community has been came into exist which should be called the wireless community. Furthermore, the common use of mobile among the teenagers is also playing a very vital role to increase the plight of our society. It is very easy to privately contact with the opposite sex and talk with them for hours and hours. Now it’s the obligation of our government to pay attention over this very serious issue and ban the unlimited free SMSs and free minutes. Though, it may be positive in some special cases but 90% of these offers have negative role.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-8096089636849638106?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/8096089636849638106/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/competition-among-cell-phones-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8096089636849638106'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8096089636849638106'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/competition-among-cell-phones-and.html' title='Competition among the Cell Phones and Service Providers'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8902262989329426039</id><published>2009-05-16T10:41:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:42:28.467+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='New Generation'/><title type='text'>Turbo Car Class Of Our Society</title><content type='html'>Invention of the wheel is the greatest invention and was the first step towards the globalization. Now, we see the roads full of traffic; the people are rushing towards their destination. Prior to this invention traveling was a difficult activity and it was too much perplexed to travel from one place to another, but now traveling has became an amusing activity. Most of the families come on the roads without having any destination. They just move on the roads and enjoy the driving. Children also insist for goalless drive and due to this practice our roads are full of luxury cars.When we talk about the families on the read, their “purposeless driving” still has purpose and that is to provide some entertainment to their children but what is the justification of that “Turbo Car” having the resemblance with space car, with crystal blue lights under it. The road looks very beautiful when the “Turbo Car” travels over it. There is silencer with big diameter, producing a heavy echo which is enough to capture the attention of every one present on the road and we can feel the drum beating base just hitting on our heart.Now we are able to see the travelers of that “Turbo Car”, full to its capacity. They are teenager boys clad in shorts, having the glasses over and cigarette under their noses. Mostly, the five passengers present there, two on the front seats and three on the back seat four of them are enjoying too much, their teeth are permanently out of their faces due to the continuously laughing. But one boy looks very serious, his face is hanging beside the door of that “Turbo Car” and he is looking too much depressed. Remaining four are busy but few and far between they inquire about the plight of their fifth companion and in reply he just nodded his head and try to convey that there is noting special, just his heart is worried.As they are at their top speed, and you have just some seconds to see their “Turbo Car” so, we can just assume the reasons of his worries. Perhaps, he has not what he is willing to has, missing someone special, he has not someone special to miss, wants to capture the attention of others (because the tragedy appeals much) that’s why he is playing the part of a protagonist or perhaps luckily his conscious is awaking and resisting over his “Destinationless Drive”.The “Turbo Car” will disappear, (leaving so many unsolved queries in your mind) but you can still listen the dying voice of song “TU MERI ADHURI PIYASS PIYASS”. So, we should not lost in anxiety that our entire youth is as mentioned; this is the picture of just one of the society classes. There is still a class among our new generation to whom we can proud. They are getting higher education with responsibility and our institutes are full of talented students, fully well informed with their obligations.As for as the “Turbo Car generation” is concerned, it should be an integral part of our society. I give the example of a computer. When we go to purchase our PC, our first concern is the Processor, Ram and Motherboard of a good quality. No doubt that computer is completed with these important devices but it will be a simple computer and adding the DVD ROM, 3D graphic devices, Web Cam, Joy Sticks and Game Cards etc. our computer will become Multi Media Computer; full of entertainment. Same way the presence of “Turbo Car Class” should be there to decorate and enrich the society.Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. Your comments or mail will be an appreciation for me.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-8902262989329426039?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/8902262989329426039/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/turbo-car-class-of-our-society.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8902262989329426039'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8902262989329426039'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/turbo-car-class-of-our-society.html' title='Turbo Car Class Of Our Society'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-2577739502803864944</id><published>2009-05-16T10:40:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:41:26.538+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Gift Of God'/><title type='text'>Levels of Sensitivity</title><content type='html'>It has been observed that most of the people remain depressed in the present era and the heavy pleasant events required to change their mode. And it is observed that upper class brings lower sensitivity, as for as the pleasers are concerned. For example, if a rich person gives a gift of a Car on the birthday of his son, definitely his son will feel happy but on the other hand if a poor person gives a gift of toy (Car) on the birthday of his son, his son will be more happy as compare to that son who gets the actual Car.Same way the girls who belong to aristocrat society show too much rude attitude towards the gifts they got from their parents and on the other hand the house maid keeps on looking towards the cloths, which the lady has been thrown after rejecting them. Now, just observer and feel the wish, desire or lust of that maid for those rejected cloths. And there are the possibilities that maid can not sleep that night just to play with her thought that perhaps next day the lady master give those cloths to her. She (maid) also mentions to her mother and sisters and tell them whole story about the cloths.So, these classes of our society play a very vital role to change and develop our thoughts and thinkings. And as we go towards the upper class our sensitivity (to feel and enjoy the pleasures) will decrease. Same way, the self respect will increase as our social class will increase. Just few bitter words are enough to bring tears in the child who belongs to a upper class, on the other hand after having hard punishment, a poor child may keep on laughing.In this way, it is God gifted built-in quality in human beings that if they don’t have as much money to by their pleasures, they naturally have the pleasure as gift from God. I explain with an example. Let suppose a person is driving a car and enjoying music in it, no doubt that he is being too much entertained and enjoying his journey, but on the same road another person can be seen riding on a bicycle and singing with joy. J That’s what I am trying to say, what though if the classes are different, the division of money among the people is unequal, but the pleasure, enjoyment or entertainment is equal due to the natural division of that sensitivity, about which I am writing about. And I repeat its formula again. Higher the class, lower the sense to feel the joy, lower the class, higher the sense to feel the joy.In the end of this post, I give one more example to explain my view. Just visit to Minar-E-Pakistan. And you will find two boys flying remote control plane they are laughing and enjoying. You will easily find two other boys who will at the top portion of the Minar-E-Pakistan, spitting towards the ground and there game is simple that winner among them will be the boy, who’s spit will touch the ground first. And the laughter of these boys will be much louder as compare to the boys those are playing with remote control plane.Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-2577739502803864944?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/2577739502803864944/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/levels-of-sensitivity.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/2577739502803864944'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/2577739502803864944'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/levels-of-sensitivity.html' title='Levels of Sensitivity'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-1630980549341561371</id><published>2009-05-16T10:38:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:40:19.723+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='False Love'/><title type='text'>Loss of precious currency</title><content type='html'>We, the human beings are hungry for rewards. All the time we look for the benefits and rewards or achievements. Our actions are to achieve some rewards. As life is limited, our rewards are limited too, in this world. No doubt, even our rewards are too precious that I have not words to thank God for them. First of all Allah make us humans, HE gave us relations like parents, brothers, sisters, husband, wife and children. And if we sincerely perform our duties towards these relations, avoid ourselves from major sins and obey the orders of our God. Then God promises for the greatest reward “Heaven”. As the life here after is eternal, the rewards and the pleasures of the Heavens are also eternal (Inshallah). We are also told that if we repent our sins and shed tears to recall our disobediences, God will forgive us (Inshallah) and the reward against our tears is Heaven. So, it would not be wrong to say that tears are the currency to purchase Heaven and its eternal pleasures. For one, tear may be just a drop of salted water but infact the tear is as much precious that one can earn Heaven, if these tear fall from our eye, reminding our sins repenting over them and recalling the blessings of Allah, I am sure that Allah will forgive us.Whenever, you visit to any park you will feel very enrich atmosphere there. You will feel very light and relax among the nature. The atmosphere will be cool and peaceful everywhere, Children will have been playing in front of their parent’s eyes. And everyone will be relaxed and in cheerful mode.But what is it? Why its so? An innocent girl is weeping? her tears are fading the beauty of dew droops. A file is placed beside her and she is enrolling the grass over her finger, having the continuous flow of tears over her cheeks. A boy is also sitting beside her, though he is not weeping but he is presenting the depressed form on his face, his consoling whispers and not as strong to pause the streams of tears. The walking visitors just pay little attention over the couple but the mystery always remains unsolved.This is the common view in parks but I could never glance in the depths of that weeping heart. Illness lies among the feelings of princess or is it due to the darkness of her evil natured boy friend. I can just assume one point.The things look attractive until they are out of reach; unconquered charm always looks much more charming and appealing. It can be noticed that children always demand the toys, they don’t have. And after having the toy, the value gradually decreased in the eyes of that child. So same happens in that case. Once the weeping girl is just like that unconquered toy, the boy throws the net of his love and sincerity and that princess tangled in that net but after having the victory over that girl, boy buries her in the graveyard of his love birds. So, to see the changed attitude, girl shows her tears to beg the sympathies of that boy, rightly said “RAJA GIDH” by Bano Qudsia.So, who is guilty? The princess who is losing the tears just to provoke the sympathies in the “RAJA GIDH” (her lover) or “RAJA GIDH” himself who first throws the fake love net, then capture the bird and in the end, sow the seeds of his love in this last meeting (about which I am writing) and the girl waters those sows and next time when that boy again visits there in the garden, he finds a new plant of his love and in this way he replays the same episode, but with a new princess.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. If you are interested in Computer Science then pay your time to visit my other blog&lt;a href="http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-1630980549341561371?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/1630980549341561371/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/loss-of-precious-currency.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/1630980549341561371'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/1630980549341561371'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/loss-of-precious-currency.html' title='Loss of precious currency'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-7402942682614752701</id><published>2009-05-16T10:36:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:38:07.534+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Friendship'/><title type='text'>Friendship, Name of the mutual need</title><content type='html'>Friendship is considered the strongest and powerful relation. I am not talking about the friendship of Male + Female, Male + Male or Female + Female, but I am talking about the all above mentioned forms of friendship. Mostly, it is considered that friendship is above all the relations. Friends are closer than brothers, sisters, children and parents. In short, friendship is the name of most superior relation. It might be so, but just in rare cases.Mostly, some groups can be observed sitting on a big coat, playing cards, with the laughters on their faces, schools and colleges are the major institutes to find friendship. Life is incomplete without friendship. So, one can say, life is noting and meaningless unless you don’t have any friend.Now, the question arises, which are the elements working behind this “Pure Relation” called “Friendship”. 1. In earlier ages, most of the persons, involves in such activities which they can’t share with there blood relations. For Example, relations with opposite sex, smoking in earlier age, fraud etc. So, to share the achievements in these departments friends are required.2. In the Middle age, when people become practical, and has responsibilities of their families, they use “Pure Relation” to solve their matters, to get befits for their own, they use “Friends” and this exchange of using friendship continue from both sides. This type of friendship is one to one friendship. Do my work and in return I will do your job.3. In old ages too, friendship continues. Now when the old people have much more sensitive hearts. They feel much, whey they have to face the bitter words from their own family members, they seek refuge under the shelter of friendship. So, they gathered, talk about their sacrifices, they done for their children, and in return what they earned.&lt;br /&gt;So, in the light of above mentioned points, friendship is noting but just the name of need, there is no sacrifice without any purpose, there is no attraction without mutual interests, in short friendship is noting but a needed passion or relation. If someone needed a friend, then he will look for his/her personal gains. Otherwise, there is no need of friendship.But we have the examples of too old friends. Friends who can not eat without each other, who can not join any party without the presence of other and who claimed one soul in two bodies. What is it? Are they really too much lucky to have a real friend or there is something else? It may be so that both are truly pure friends but even in that case, they too have some mutual interests and booth are needed for each others.They could be trusted for each other and have loot of things/secrets to share.They could be involve in different occupations and solve each others matters regarding to their field. May be they have the same opposition and they have to be friends to face the opposition jointly.&lt;br /&gt;In short, there will need of friendship but pure friendship is that which has no need from one or both sides. Friendship should be on the based of true emotions and not based on mutual needs. But if you find difficulty or impossibility to search for a pure friend then try to bring your friendship close to the pure friendship, at lease from your end you should not look your friend with needy eye, at least you should built your relations of friendship without any benefit or favor from the other side. And more important friendship must have limits and one should never cross those limits or boundaries.According to me, the definition of a true friend is as “After my departure of this world, the persons those will pray for me, will be my best true friends”&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. If you are interested in Computer Science then pay your time to visit my other bloghttp://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-7402942682614752701?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/7402942682614752701/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/friendship-name-of-mutual-need.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/7402942682614752701'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/7402942682614752701'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/friendship-name-of-mutual-need.html' title='Friendship, Name of the mutual need'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-3231383478059389654</id><published>2009-05-16T10:34:00.001+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:36:52.539+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Common Character'/><title type='text'>Mr. Sajjad Ahmed, The Common Character</title><content type='html'>When you leave home early in the morning, you will find that the entire city is along with you, the purpose is same, to seek earning for you and your family. Everyone looks in routine hurry. And you can easily find the stress on their faces, except some exceptional cases. Specially, the people who are going to office, look depressed. They will look to watch again and again while standing on signal or other traffic jam cases.When they reached office or workshop, they find there Mr. Sajjad Ahmed; the most senior employee or worker of that organization. He looks relaxed and cheerful as compare to the other staff. Soon the boss calls him, he goes in his room and then returns after briefing the concerned matters. Then he briefs the staff about the Boss’s intensions, mostly not good about the staff. After it, Mr. Sajjad Ahmed sits on his chair, will give some comments on politics, and his personal achievements. Everybody will agree with him in all the issues and matters. Mostly, the staff looks angry with him internally but shows too much loyalty. Why it happens? Who is Mr. Sajjad Ahmed? Who is right, Mr. Sajjad Ahmed or his Colleagues? I don’t know, but I try to write points of thinking from both sides.First, I will introduce Mr. Sajjad. He is the most senior employee/worker among his staff, having ability to handle even the worst situation and major faults done by him or by his colleagues. Entire works and matters are on his finger tips. He can do that job just in ten minutes which others perform in one hour. He is full of confidence, fully aware with his skills. His attitude could be rude and authoritative. He has been proved himself a hard worker in past. He did all sort of assignments, still aware of work with all departments. Now, he is little lazy, because he has assistants to whom he can get work. Now, he only orders from his seat and others have to obey him. Big Boss calls only him in important matters, he is trusted person or Boss has to trust on him. In short, as Operating System works like a bridge between Hardware and Software, Mr. Sajjad too works like a bridge, a source of communications between upper executive class and the lower staff of him. The majority of Mr. Sajjad’s colleagues seem unhappy with Mr. Sajjad and if I look him with the eyes of his colleagues, I can not see any good characteristic. According to the colleagues of Mr. Sajjad, he does not work, just comes in office and then sit on his seat. He only issue commands and orders and he himself does nothing. Most of the time he spend to solve his personal matters. He shows rude attitude towards them, and worst, Mr. Sajjad plays a very vital role to uplift of throw down the employee/worker’s status in the higher authorities. And he does only in the basses of his personal liking and disliking.Now, if I come to the other side Mr. Sajjad has too his justifications. According to him, he has spend the golden part of his age in just one organization. In his earlier times, he faced too many hardships and has faced the character of Mr. Sajjad of that time. He has done all jobs with full devoted heart. He lost the golden part of his age just to achieve the title of “Mr. Sajjad” and as reward, he deserves some relaxation. Again, he covers the mistakes of his colleagues and presents good image to upper class. In short, according to Mr. Sajjad, he provides shelter for his colleagues and in return if he has to be rude sometimes, its his right.In the end, its up to you, to conclude that who is right? Colleagues of Mr. Sajjad or he himself.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. If you are interested in Computer Science then pay your time to visit my other blog&lt;a href="http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-3231383478059389654?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/3231383478059389654/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/mr-sajjad-ahmed-common-character.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/3231383478059389654'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/3231383478059389654'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/mr-sajjad-ahmed-common-character.html' title='Mr. Sajjad Ahmed, The Common Character'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8880694161326824134</id><published>2009-05-16T10:32:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:33:59.622+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Visit To Zoo'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Observers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Observe'/><title type='text'>Observe the Observers</title><content type='html'>Zoo is a park or an institution in which living animals are kept and usually exhibited to the public. It would not be wrong if we call it the park for children. It looks full on the Sunday, the weekly holiday and during the other public holidays, one has to wait for long time to enter in the zoological garden. Majority of people went there to amuse their children. It would not be wrong if I said that Zoo is favorite place among the children and young ones. But the favorite animals keep on changing with the passage of time. In the earlier ages, children like monkey then lion and elephant etc. But as soon as the young ones enter in teen age, their interest develops in the animals without cage. Perhaps now they become more courageous and now they lost their interest in the innocent animals, behind the bars. Now they prefer to gaze the animals without cage, openly walking and offering themselves for exhibition.Most of the animals are imported, only few belong to Pakistan. But the local animals feel inferiority complex. So, they try to copy the actives of imported brand. Doing so, they lost their charm and simplicity. And those animals present the funny look to their visitors.“Popcorns” are not allowed to offer the animals publicly but this practice is continued. Now, there are two classes of visitors. One is that, which can afford the popcorns. They tempt the animals by showing popcorns to capture their attention, and the second class just amused to see this practice of offering and accepting the popcorns. They just watch this drama with the laughter on their faces and commenting that it is the game for rich class because animals have only one interest, “Popcorns”. Some naughty persons throw empty packing bags towards the animals and earn their anger.So, the animals behind the bars also get amusement to watch the practices of animals out of the bars. And as we have a circle of life, same way we have circle of entertainment. In the earlier ages children get pleasure to see the activities of animals behind the bars and when those children put step in teen age, animals from behind the bars amused to watch their activities.A connection between human and animal is not much harmful there in zoo because no any horrible encounter expected there due to the interference of public, but if some visitor leads animal towards the Laurence Garden, there are much chances for horrible encounter. Because there are the existence of isolated places, the Eden of hunters. But even in these isolated places there could be the existence of some horrible creature, watching you behind the bushes. So, its warning for both the animals and visitors to don’t spread out of the zoo. It would be harmful for society and if it happens whole the society will present the reflection of jungle.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. If you are interested in Computer Science then pay your time to visit my other blog&lt;a href="http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Arif Iftikhar&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-8880694161326824134?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/8880694161326824134/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/observe-observers.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8880694161326824134'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8880694161326824134'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/observe-observers.html' title='Observe the Observers'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8597107522798681143</id><published>2009-05-16T10:31:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:32:45.175+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Traveling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Local Transport'/><title type='text'>Traveling by Local Transport</title><content type='html'>Traveling is a pure source of entertainment among young ones. But now, traveling is losing its charm among young generation and other alternates took place of it. Now most of the young generation likes to entertain themselves with Cell Phones. They spend their all time while chatting, SMS and making Calls. The reason is simple. Call Rates are low, and SMS are mostly free of cost after getting some package. So, its other topic, called “New generation and Cell Phones”. Today we are going to discuss about the traveling.So, there is two main types of traveling, first within the city and secondly within the country. I will not talk about the upper class because I don’t know much about that, I am from a lower middle class so how the people of our class travel from one place to other, that’s what I am going to write. We use local transport to travel and mostly we find the same inside picture of all the buses.Ok, I start my journey. If you lucky enough to travel from the starting start of route then you will have to face no problem. You just wait for the arrival of Bus. And as soon as possible you find the bus, rush towards it and sit on your desired seats. I am sure that the bus will fill just within the minutes. And then you will find standing passengers and some of them will not hesitate to sit on your shoulder, if you are sitting. But if you want to enter from the mid of any bus’s route then you will have to be more courageous. Make the full focus on that way from where the bus will give its appearance, as soon as you find the first glance of your desired bus, gather your all strength and step towards the bus yourself. Bus will bow down towards one side (gate side) because the passengers are already hanging with bus’s gate. As soon as bus stops on the stop. Hold your breath and push yourself in the sea of people, if you succeed, you will find yourself, among the restless people. You mouth will have been fixed under the armpit of some solid villager type of person, someone will keep on resisting to pull back his foot which, is under your feet. Some kid is trying to rush towards the gate, because his stop has been left behind. Soon you will settle in that atmosphere. Then you can enjoy your surroundings. You will find majority of students is hanging with the gate of bus, they have just a little support and the entire body is out of the bus. But they are happy, considering themselves as a spider man or superman, they enjoy their adventure. Remaining students are clinging with the grill, which is separating female and male portions of the bus. They are enriching their eyes with a deep gaze across the grill.Then you will find a dirty faced kid, (who is lucky enough to have a seat with the window) vomiting on the road. All his face up to neck is outside the window, and he is busy to vomiting. His father or grandfather is sitting with is side seat, he is not worry at all. As it is the routine work of his travel. Another old man is standing along them, in his mind he is wishing to make a demand that “take your son in your lap and give me place” but due to the plight of that kid, he could not convert his wish to word. Soon you will feel a heavy hit of an iron pot. A milkman trying to get down the bus, he has 5 or 6 jars full of milk and he is pushing the jars towards the gate. Other passengers are putting pressure on the driver and conductor to move the bus as soon as possible. In haste milkman get down on the road along with his milk jars. As the bus moves he came to know that one of his jar is missing, he rushed towards the bus, soon the conductor throws the remaining jar on the road. Then you will listen some exchange of abuses from both sides (milkman and conductor) and then some passenger will pass comments, some in the favor of milkman and others in favor of conductor.Suddenly a person starts paying regards to everyone and then he starts amusing the gathering with his own poetry. And after entertain the “Traveling Town” he offers something to sale only in 10 Rs. Which’s actual price is Rs. 100 in the market. Amazing! But it happens. So, start your struggle (to reach to the door) when your destination is three K.M ahead otherwise conductor will throw you out after passing the same distance from your desired bus stop.Thank you for spending your precious time and reading my post. Wish you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. If you are interested in Computer Science then pay your time to visit my other blog&lt;a href="http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://www.usmanarif05.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/3545825237925323674-8597107522798681143?l=wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/feeds/8597107522798681143/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/traveling-by-local-transport.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8597107522798681143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3545825237925323674/posts/default/8597107522798681143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://wordsbyheart-arif.blogspot.com/2009/05/traveling-by-local-transport.html' title='Traveling by Local Transport'/><author><name>Arif</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07314856055390109149</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3545825237925323674.post-8112354607536268258</id><published>2009-05-16T10:29:00.000+05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T10:31:17.376+05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Words'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Mind'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Heart'/><title type='text'>Heart or Mind?</title><content type='html'>This is my first post in this blog and the title of the blog is “Wrods of Hert”. So, first, its matter of thinking that from where my thinking and ideas come????. Is it the creation of my mind or heart? Or in other words, what is the source of the creation of my ideas, thinking wishes etc. some are of the opinion that all mentioned things are the creation of heart whereas others are of the opinion that these things are the creation of mind. What you think? Ok… leave it just tell me it this thinkable topic or not? But from where you think? From you heart or from your mind? Believe me…. Me too don’t know that should I blame my heart for thinking or should I blame my mind for my thinking.Now just come towards the other school of thoughts. One is called “Idealism” and the other called “Realism”. There is no proof for me to prove my point of view but mostly the things and ideas close to the realism,, are the creation of mind. The mind wants proves, evidences to accept and to generate ideas. And the ideas which lead us towards the idealism are the creation of heart. So, again we find two definitions first one “Thoughts &amp;amp; ideas which lead towards the realism are generated by mind”And second definition“Thoughts &amp;amp; ideas which lead towards the idealism are generated by heart”But all our discussion is just illusion, what is the fact? Perhaps nobody knows. I know just one thing that realism is better reality. And idealism is a cup of juice. And one should have idealism and imaginative world where he can take refuge. Or in other words from the desert of reality we should escape towards the greenery of imaginative fields. So, while writing I find some pair of words and in future post I will try to write more on these words. These words are:Realism + Reality + Harsh/ Bitter + Desert + Thinking of MindAnd the second set is:Idealism + Imaginative World + Soft + Greenery + Thinking of Heart.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for you spending your precious time and reading my post. Wishing you Best of Luck. I will appreciate if you post some comments or send me mail. 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